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Anger & Insults

Whenever somebody insults you remember to do this:

  1. Remove all labels on your true self. Language, nationality, religion, skin colour, clothes, social status and ad infinitum things which define you.
  2. Next realise that the real you is the energy the force, the consciousness which you use to run your life and achieve everything in life. You can define this as love, universal force , conciousness. This strength is the power which should immediately manifest in you to forgive that person and make a new you. Constantly be aware of this power. This approach will give you peace and divine love.
  3. Make others understand this and all conflicts will end in your life.

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